The focus of love for this day is an important one. Self-care and sharing gifts with your partner are wonderful gestures. However, too many people are suffering for us to only think of ourselves. Valentine's Day is not just for lovers. As our focus goes outwards to others, I am reminded of the original meaning of Valentine's Day.
The holiday began with Saint Valentine. According to legend, during the third century, Saint Valentine performed weddings for Christian soldiers who were not allowed to marry. Also, he restored the sight to the daughter of the man who put him in jail. Pretty good saint behavior, I guess.
But even though we are not saints, we have other gifts we can share too. How can you help someone else feel more loved through your kindness and generosity today?
Give to a food bank today. Make a co-worker a meal if you know they are struggling. Donate to wildfire recovery through the Salvation Army or American Red Cross. Donate to the Los Angeles Fire Department Foundation. Ujamma Place in Minnesota empowers young black men to overcome systemic barriers and gain success through holistic services. There are so many people and places that could use a little assistance. What underserved communities can you share your kindess, love and generosity with at this moment? Even just your time is a beautiful thing to share right now. Someone you know is struggling, I bet.
The bottom line is you have a quality that is beneficial to someone in the world today. What is it? Be a Saint Valentine. Connect, reach out, and heal someone with your presence. That is real love.
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